*sigh* I used to be a regular here, not so much lately. Miss you guys!

Hey guys,
I am so sorry I haven’t been on for so long.  I feel like I have been neglecting you guys :(  Here is an update on where I am and why I haven’t been able to make it on.

Tim’s father in law started chemo. He is doing well but I have been going over to help him when his wife isn’t home.

My mom is going through a change of life maybe?  I’m not sure what is going on with her, but I have been trying to spend more time with her as well as she just seems kind of emotionally unstable lately.

Paige has her dance recital this weekend and there have been extra practices to get ready so I get to play taxi to her.

I have started waitressing again to help out my friend who is a manager of a diner.

And finally, probably the biggest news is that my husband, Tim, and his brother, Bill, were in a motorcycle accident on Sunday.  Bill and his bike are fine.  Tim is pretty banged up and our bike was $500 worth of damage away from being totalled.  I have been taking care of him as well.  He is doing MUCH better than he was even yesterday.  But there is a sprained ankle, road rash (which are pretty bad brush burns) on his knee, hip and forearm, and 3rd degree burns on his palm…all on his left side that need to be tended with.  Plus since the left side of his body is pretty much out of commission I get to help with dressing and everything and continue to run the household.  Needless to say, I have had my hands full.

With all of that being said, I am proud to say that I still continue to take time for me.  My food and water aren’t as good as they could be, but I am making sure to get in at least 1/2 hour of exercise a day.  :)

Hopefully things will calm down soon and I will be able to be here more.  I sure miss you all!

Love,
Anj

11 Comments so far

  1. Jennifer @ June 4th, 2009

    Oh my goodness you have had your hands full. So thankful that your husband is on the mend and did not experience something even more serious. This is enough! You have had enough! Well you sound good and glad to hear you are keeping up with the exercise. I am guessing this is the secret to sanity…Movement ;) Well take care Anj. Sending you hugs……

  2. leahmarie @ June 4th, 2009

    Wow Girl, talk about a full plate! You are Super Woman!!!! I hope the hubs feels better, that totally sucks that he got into such a bad accident! Men and their toys!
    Keep on rocking Girl, you are AMAZING!!!
    ((HUGZ))
    Leah♥

  3. butterflykiss @ June 4th, 2009

    You are such a good person to be handling all that. I am so sorry that your husband and brother in law were in an accident, but at least your husband has you to help him out! Good for you on keeping up with your exersize!! Keep up the great work, and I hope everything calms down and gets better for you sweetie :D

  4. somemansdream @ June 4th, 2009

    Oh girl, I’m sorry to hear about all this–that is alot. I’m glad to hear that Tim is ok, despite all the injuries he suffered–ouch.
    You should be very proud of yourself for still working out with everything your facing. Yay Anj!!!
    I’ll be praying for things to pick up for the rest of your family as well.

  5. nana4 @ June 4th, 2009

    Missed you!
    Sent you a message!!
    Big HUGS!

  6. Shakeyolonbon44 @ June 4th, 2009

    im sorry to hear about all that going on in your life!
    i completely understand why you havent been on much!
    no worries!

  7. khmerbeauty @ June 4th, 2009

    MISSED YOU HON!!!!

  8. MayaIsReady @ June 4th, 2009

    HEY don’t you make excuses! We do ALL in fact have a life outside of BuddySlim and need to make it our first priority! I felt awful too since I’ve been missing lately, but realized that BS will be here when I come back and am ready to!!!! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF k!!!

  9. moneil @ June 5th, 2009

    WOW THAT IS ALOT TO HANDLE I HOPE THINGS EVEN OUT SOME FOR YA

  10. momtothegirls @ June 9th, 2009

    That’s so much change all at once. I’ll look forward to getting to know you in the near future then! Much Love and good thoughts.

  11. not2late4tina @ September 7th, 2009

    I’m anxiously waiting for your next blog. :)

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