Buddies, It saddens me to have to say good-bye temporarily

I sit here with a heavy heart and tears streaming down my face.  Trying to write the most difficult blog ever.  I am sorry buddies, but I will be taking a leave from Buddyslim.  I will be losing my job tomorrow and with financial decisions made at home, I can’t afford the internet there.  Please know that I will log on from other computers where and when I can, but I cannot devote the time to Buddyslim like I wish to do.  Nancy will be taking over as a temporary leader as the Wildcat Panther team and will do so until I can come back home to you all.  Okay, well, I can’t see to type any more so I’m going to go now.  I love you all so much and thank you for being a part of what made me who I am today.

36 Comments so far

  1. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    *heavy heart and swollen eyes here* What can I say Anj? I don’t want to see you go and I know you don’t even if it’s temporarily.

    As I told you on the phone, we need your energy. But at the moment, you have to do what is best for you.

  2. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    I love you to death. I know I’ll miss seeing you here! I will miss you in the cheer forum!! :)

    Hey, we haven’t had a play date in a long long long time!

  3. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    *still wipes tears and blows nose* snot sharing with you now.

    See, gonna miss you!

    I will do my best as A TEMP!!!! NOTHING MORE THEN THAT! I couldn’t imagine the Wildcats without you!!!

  4. somemansdream @ March 26th, 2009

    Damn, this is making me cry. Ok, I definitely understand but its hard to say goodbye. I’ll be looking forward to your visits whenever you can make it back. We love ya girl. I’ll be praying that things will work out for the best for you-work wise. I just hope that you can check in with Nancy and some of the others by phone and let us know how its going. Hugs. Good bye girl, and remember to take care of yourself ok.

  5. coolbird30 @ March 26th, 2009

    Will miss you on here so teribly much *tears falling*.. I know we’ll still be in touch, but it will be so hard without you every single day. Take care of you guys, and hopefully God will lead you to the perfect job very, very quickly! Love you tons and tons!!

  6. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    *kama* where’s that box of kleenox - I ran through the first already.

  7. somemansdream @ March 26th, 2009

    Anj, it ate my comment.

  8. somemansdream @ March 26th, 2009

    Damn it, for the 2nd time…it ate my comment girl.

  9. kamaperry @ March 26th, 2009

    Here Nancy, I will share my kleenex!
    Good God, it will not be the same without you here.
    I feel so heartsick. We love you Anj, we will do you proud, ok?
    I will call and pester you alot, ok?
    I love you.

  10. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    Debbie - write it again please. Anj can’t get into the moderator folder.

    On the phone with her right now.

  11. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    I know I can talk to you any time I want. Just that you light up this place. You light up the Wildcat forums.

    I pray something works out and you will be back on sooner then later.

  12. coolbird30 @ March 26th, 2009

    Yeah.. exactly what Nancy and Kama said too… *foghorn nose blow* Kama, pass the tissues my way, I’m out too!!!

  13. karinchantal @ March 26th, 2009

    I wrote you a message already but you’ll be missed Anj. And again, keep your chin up! Try and stay positive and keep strong ok!
    (((((((((((((((big hugs)))))))))))))))))

  14. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    Let’s all pray that things work for our Anj and she will get a kick ass job with internet without any monitoring so we can haver her all day!

    *on knees praying right now!*

  15. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    Haver - hahaha I created a new word just for you!

  16. JustJane47 @ March 26th, 2009

    Oh my sweet Anj…..hey over there, some KLEENEX PLEASE.

    I’m so so sad to hear this, but its only temporary.

    You’ve been right there by my side right from the start, and I’ll never forget that.

    Anj, my hero, my inspiration, and my dear friend….this isn’t goodbye….you take care and we’ll talk when we can.

    I need to go have a cry, Anj’s news, and Shanna’s new’s just breaks my heart

  17. ready4change @ March 26th, 2009

    You will get a kick ass job just as Nancy says! Good luck and stay strong and focused!

  18. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    *runs over to Janey…….here yah go I have about 10 kleenex left…after that it’s your sleeves*

    Nicole - Can you please go to Costco and get the extra big size pack and bring it over?

  19. khmerbeauty @ March 26th, 2009

    Will also be praying for Tim and Paige. You guys will pull through.

    Good things are coming your way sweetie!

  20. Lori @ March 26th, 2009

    TEMPORARILY is the keyword here.

    I know you’ll be back. It wouldn’t be the same here without you.

    You are just going through a rough patch right now.
    Things will get better just hang in there and know that we are all rooting for you.

    Super big hugs Anj
    wish I could help ease your pain right now
    Love you
    Lori

    PS You do realize you are causing a flood don’t you?

  21. TerisJourney @ March 26th, 2009

    Hurry Back!!! Know that you will be missed. Whatever you do, do not fall back into the food trap - you’ve come to far for that. You are stronger and better than that.

    Will be thinking about you until your return.

    Peace!

  22. coolbird30 @ March 26th, 2009

    I can’t go to Costco.. they took my membership away! I guess it’s sleeves all around! Hey Anj…. tampons crossed the bestest job ever finds you tomorrow!!

  23. kamaperry @ March 26th, 2009

    And you all know the love we share is not limited to the internet!

  24. betsysblog @ March 26th, 2009

    Kama said it- “heartsick” but we know you will be back- stronger than ever! We love you!

  25. nana4 @ March 26th, 2009

    You were my buddy and now my friend. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
    Big HUGS!

  26. nana4 @ March 26th, 2009

    It ate mine too! Lets try again……
    I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. First you were my buddy and then my friend!
    Big HUGS!

  27. onlygirl67 @ March 26th, 2009

    oh my gosh! I am so sad. You were one of the first buddyslimmers to reach out to me. We will all be looking for you!
    love and hugs,
    Shannon

  28. naomi @ March 26th, 2009

    I am soo sorry to hear this.
    I will def. be praying for you and your family.
    I wish nothing but the best for you!

  29. porscha @ March 26th, 2009

    I haven’t had the priviledge to get to know you personally, but I am saddened because I see how big of an impact you’ve had to so many ppl on here. I remember reading a few of your blogs a while ago and what I remembered most about you was your great sense of humor. I know what a struggle losing your job can be.. we’ll all be praying for ya. Take care of yourself and we’ll see you when you come back!!

  30. kyliejo @ March 26th, 2009

    I know we don’t talk much but I do read your stuff and enjoy your company on here. :( I am so sorry about your job and I really hope and pray this economy turns around.
    Go to the library and log on. When me and my husband were low on money we didn’t have cable or internet so we went to the library all the time and used their computers and internet, it was actually fun and good memories!
    We will all be thinking of you.

  31. beckyboo @ March 26th, 2009

    Oh no Anj. I am so sorry you are losing your job. You are a wonderful, intelligent woman so I have NO doubt you will find a NEW job quickly. Take it in stride, that which doesn’t kill us, right? Best wishes to you and your family. I will miss you!

  32. Jennifer @ March 26th, 2009

    Sorry about your job Anj. *HUGS* You are such a big part of the motivational spirit at Buddyslim and even when you are not here everyday, you are, ya know. Thank you so much for your kindness and will see you when you are on. All the best to you and your family. I will be thinking about you…

  33. renee68 @ March 26th, 2009

    This is a sad day, and I am sorry to hear things have worked out this way for you. We will really miss you and will be waiting for your return!!!! Take care Anj!!! :)

  34. msweightloss @ March 26th, 2009

    Anj, I will continue to keep my fingers crossed for you. I can only hope that you will return to us soon. Your spirit shines brightly on buddyslim and there is not a soul who will go without missing you here. Thanks for all the support and motivation you’ve given me. Hugs~~~ :(

  35. sabrinaBB @ March 27th, 2009

    *wipes big tears* need some Kleenex over here Nanc…oh wait I found some….nee, not enough…need more :( Oh Anj it won’t be the same without you. We will kick butt and make you proud girl ;) I know you will find a job quick and everything will work out for you soon. :) Until then, hold your head up high and know that we will be here voting for ya and waiting with opens arms for your return..*me sad…very very sad*….
    Love you girl, can’t wait to see you around again :D ((HUGS))

  36. 8crazyemotions @ March 27th, 2009

    I started crying when I read your message to the wildcat/panthers in the forum…
    I’m going to miss you so much while you are gone.. You have one of my best friends on here, and I know I can tell you anything. It’s hard knowing that you wont be here all the time now… I know that you will be coming back, but it still doesn’t help with missing you while you are gone…
    I wish you the best of luck finding a new job. And I’ll be praying for you while you are gone.
    You are such a strong woman… and I know you can over come this. Stay positive, and remember we are all here waiting for you when you can come back.
    Love you so much Anj!

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